People that sexually starve their partners shouldn't be surprised when they cheat.

So the most common time this happens is in long term relationships.

Let me just say now that this is both men that cheat and women that cheat, not exclusively for 1 sex.

I see and hear about it all the time, a large complaint is that them and their partners are no longer physical or are not often physical (Months without sex at a time).

I understand that some people have different sex drives, however if your SO has said they they feel this way and you acknowledge it and nothing changes, that person shouldn't be surprised that the person would go outside of the relationship to look for intimate relations.

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I'm not in anyway saying that cheating is great or reasonable, just stating that people shouldn't be as surprised as they usually are.