It's easy for men to claim they're again abortions until their comfort is threatened by a possible pregnancy.

I've been dating this man for a bit over 6 months. We have a great connection and all. I've been clear with him since the beginning that I don't want children. He agreed 100% while also letting me know he doesn't really believe in abortions and all the harsh words that come with it. So we took double protection and all that jazz to avoid a situation where we'd both be uncomfortable with.

Last week, the condom broke and he said he didn't feel it. I was freaking out and he was as calm as ever which caused me to rise a 'wtf, why are you calm?' To which he replied 'It's no big deal, there are abortions centers.'

UH, WHAT? I mean, this one man that told me he didn't believe in abortions, that same man who said it was basically an awful act now wants me to get one?

So I questioned him, of course. Turns out he isn't against it when it happens to him. HE isn't ready and HE couldn't emotionally provide for a baby. I suspect he isn't the only one.

And that, is how I ended up taking plan B and dumping someone the same day.