Witches' Counsel: My Boyfriend Is Jealous Of My Best Friend
BuzzFeed - Latest 2015-08-19
Summary:
A recurring ~magical~ advice column.
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Hi! We're Arianna and Katie and we like casting spells and giving advice. So we're combining those interests here, in Witches' Counsel, where you can send us any problems, hang-ups, fears, etc., and we will do everything in our ~power~ to help. Reach us at witches@buzzfeed.com.
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Hello Witches!
I need some advice about boys vs. best friends. I'm 14 and going into eighth grade and my best friend and I have been friends for four years now. I love her to death, but she has a nasty habit of going after the guys I like. In fact, she's dated two guys I was trying to go out with, and I'm afraid she's going to do it AGAIN. Every time I try to confront her about it all she says is, "We must have the same taste in guys..." and shrugs it off. I know people can't help their feelings, but I can't help but feel sabotaged every time she develops feelings for someone I'm into. I usually end up encouraging her to go for it, because I don't want to fight with her about it. So here's the question: how do I build up the confidence to stand up to my best friend, and how do I do it without ruining our friendship?
Sincerely, Spurned Sidekick