AITAH for telling my wife I do not owe her anything for sex?

30M and 30F. my wife want me to buy her gifts or complete chores in the house for sex. i told her sex should be wanted by two parties and i will not do these for sex. i still love her and show her affection but doing something for sex feels gross for me. i work 10 hours a day from home and barely can move after it. i do my own part of laundry, dishes and cleaning of my room. my wife is a stay at home wife. what is the point of being married if both of us will not want sex and one side will work for it. she is angry with me for not wanting sex but it just feels disgusting. she tells me she does not owe me sex or her body. i responded and i do not owe her anything for sex. if you do not want we will not do it and that's it. i told her if she keeps that attitude i will consider divorcing her.

aita?